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What are emotions? : Feelings of different nature that have a stronghold on us on making or not making any decision. Our emotions give us the path of life and support us to move in the direction that we want. When these turn into desires, dreams we may get stubborn not to think or move towards things that can be a hurdle in the way of a decided or dreamed destination.
The role of beloved ones in our life starts us disturbing when our dreams, emotions are against their desires. Then the real story of life starts a fight within our inside. Our personality no longer remains like it was before when we were not being disturbed, the point where we were given neither the power to decide nor to not to decide, the point where we were almost free with our life, dreams, desires, no obstacles, not any fights but only want to explore or live life. Why gets disturbed just because they don’t agree to us as we are not 100% alike, thus the only reason of feeling not well they are important to us.
If someone is important to us then how to spend life with them when their thinking is against our thoughts. This way life changes, takes a new turn, make you take bold decisions, and as a result, no one is happy. Why? As if you agree to their idea of life just for the sake of making them happy you are not happy in real from the inside.
WHEN ONE SIDE NOT EVEN WANT TO THINK ABOUT THE VALID REASONS OTHER ONE HAS
And thus such a situation comes that conflicts arise and starts becoming much stronger. Why these cannot be resolved because one side not want to ponder on the reasons the other one has may be because of the pressures they are facing like in terms of society, beliefs, generation gap thinking conflicts.
WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO MOVE ON WITH THESE CONFLICTS
Try best first to make your family, your beloved ones to get agree and then if it not happens then again for the last time think about the validity and consequences of your decision. If your final answer is that you should move on with your thoughts then move on and prove your decision right.
SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO TAKE DECISIONS THAT ARE AGAINST OUR CULTURE, BELIEFS OF OUR PEOPLE AND MANY SUCH THINGS BUT THIS IS ONE LIFE ! SO LIVE IT DESPITE ALL THE CONFLICTS AROUND!!!
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