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Why it happened? Why this happened? These are the most raised questions by all of us. These questions are raised when such genuine things happen to you and you start questioning like this!
The point here is that how to learn whether we are wrong or right while raising this question. And in both cases when we are wrong or right and what can be done next?
EVALUATION OF OURSELVES WHILE RAISING THIS QUESTION
We can answer our self of this question but first need to know in which category we fall
· Whether I am a person who used to think negatively or
· Whether I am a person who used to think positively
When we succeed in knowing to which category we belong to then the 50% answer is there. But here everyone will think positively ;) that they definitely belong to 1st category. It means we need to know further about it! Then let’s see deeply in both categories.
· WHETHER I AM A PERSON WHO USED TO THINK NEGATIVELY
If we belong to these below mentioned details it means we definitely need to do something to correct us.
* Sometimes we feel like why it happened when our expectations got hurt, not fulfilled and then we become sad and start thinking like this.
But the point here is why we expect, there are two reasons of it normally:
We love that person and start thinking like he will not hurt us
Second one because we don’t learn to not to trust to those who should not be trusted.
* When the opportunity is right there to avail but we couldn’t and start thinking like this then we are at fault as we had not prepared our self for the upcoming opportunities.
* when we come across some kind of rejections, but these category people are somehow responsible for these rejections but they used to blame others like we have a exam and we had not prepared for it and have no genuine reasons but only the lame excuses then who is responsible for failure?
* When we choose to surround us by negative mindset people from whom thoughts we get influenced then who is at fault when such situations arises that makes us to raise such questions
· WHETHER I’M A PERSON WHO USED TO THINK POSITIVELY
This category people only need to take further steps in life to succeed everywhere. Then who are these people:
* The person who makes his best effort to avail the opportunity or to pass the exam by preparing for it and fulfilling all the requirements. But certainly despite all the things fulfilled he came across rejections or failure then the question that comes into his mind is valid then next what?, this is a common thought that comes first but being positive he will try as many times as needed to get what he wants
* The person who is connected to such persons who normally do such things of which bad consequences he had to face but then as he is connected to them by blood relations or some other relations that cannot be ended so he will try his best to resolve the bad results, however being connected to such persons this question is normal
* The person who is facing pressures and is somehow suffering from the complicated things it is obvious he will ask such question but what to do this is not in his control
CONCLUSION
We are living in a world where there everyone has to face some kinds of ups and downs, no one is such who has no problems. But the best people are those who used to accept the situation and move towards solutions.
Sometimes it gets difficult to resolve the issues because in our front we will definitely find some kind of stubborn people with whom our lives are connected and they will try their best to make it difficult for us. But there are many great people who make their way even with these ones.
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EVERY SMILING FACE DOES NOT MEAN THAT ITS BEHIND IS NO SORROWS OR HARDSHIPS BUT THEIR SMILING FACES GIVES US THE MESSAGE TO BE CALM, PATIENT, BE POSITIVE IN EVERY MATTER AND HIDE WHAT THEY ARE FACING. BECAUSE OUR SMILE MAKES OHERS TO SMILE AND MAKE THEM TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE!!